Is it me or just you?

You know I have so many different characteristics but can't seem to find one that matches my own. I think I get close but then, of course, no success. I've never been know to be cocky or over confident and I truly believe that beauty does lie within the beholder. There was a time in my life when I was just focused on trying to meet people who could possibly be boyfriends. But I have truly overcome that stage in my life. I call this the stage of finding true friends in this city that I have come to make my home. Yeah a long title, I know. I don't get along well with women. Its not out of jealousy nor hatred. I just have never been able to hold on to them and quite frankly I really don't mind. I like men, the male species. I prefer talking to a guy on everything. Well not exactly everything but you catch my drift. To me men are easier to hang out with, they are easier to trust (as long as there are no strings attached), they tend to get the big picture at times. Now back home in Philadelphia I have loads of male friends. Here in Virginia still working on it. Not saying I don't have any, I do but I'm still trying to figure them out. I just don't know where to begin finding friends let alone true friends that I can hang out with and chill. I'm not a mall female. I don't just go to walk around, I prefer movies, bowling, go carts, amusement parks. Ok so there are some things I wont do all the time cuz I'm not good at it, like fishing. So with all that said, is it me or just you who can't be my friend or interested in me. I know I don't have all this painted on my face but I don't know how to let people know who I am without being assertive. Any suggestions?